Mistress Absolute's 'Beginners Guide to BDSM'

Mistress Absolute the Dominatrix and as a Kink Ambassador

As well as training slaves, she also runs one of the largest monthly fetish clubs in the UK, Club Subversion. She is also the co-ordinator and for one of the world’s biggest fetish weekends, The London Fetish Weekend and runs Club Femdom as well as being involved in various other UK and international events.

She has appeared in many TV programmes including documentaries for BBC 1 and 2, Channel 4, & Sky, has been featured in magazines & newspapers including Loaded, Skin Two, Time Out & The Evening Standard. She has spoken at The Wellcome Trust and even been a guest on Womens Hour. She has been immortalised in the book ‘The History & Arts of The Dominatrix’ as a featured contemporary iconic Dominatrix.

She helps run a kinky travel company which organise parties and holidays for international travel Domme Trips and occasionally performs at fetish events around the world. Along with one-on-one Domination sessions, she shares some of her 15+ years' of expertise by also teaching. After 12 years experience teaching groups and individual patrons at the high end erotic boutique, Coco de Mer, Max Absolute now only also gives bespoke private classes and tutorial sessions for couples or individuals wanting to know more about the fetish scene and BDSM.

She has an instructional DVD called Beginners Guide to BDSM, upon which the eponymous course is based. she is also the author of the instructional kink book Absolute Beginners Guide to Domination. She finished her Masters in Gender, Sexuality and Culture in 2010 and started researching her PhD in Jan 2011 but unfortunately had to postpone finishing it after two years. Her PhD thesis examines the history of Chastity and Cuckolding alongside the social and psychological aspect of the subject matter in today’s society.

The psychological aspect plays a very important role in her studies and teaching. Mistress Max Absolute has been awarded several awards including a London Alternative Market ‘Lifetime Achievement Award’ and is in the BDSM hall of Fame in LA which are a testament to her steadfast commitment to demystifying, and normalising practices that have historically be demonised and pathologiesed, simply because they are considered or categorised as non-normative sexual responses. She also likes to make sure (by leading by example) that no one forgets this serious business of kink is supposed to be fun…….