BDSM for beginners

Everything you wanted to know about kinky exploration but didn't know who to ask.

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BDSM for beginners

Intrigued by BDSM but unsure where to even start? This tutorial is aimed at complete beginners and those who have experimented a bit but do not yet feel confident. It will cover how to construct a scene and different types of scenes, communication and building trust to ensure it all goes smoothly.

Basic techniques for using BDSM kit will be discussed and demonstrated from bondage gear through to floggers, crops, canes and paddles at a beginners level. Negotiation, safe-words and checking in will be discussed so you can feel confident running or being involved in a scene. There will be practical demonstration videos throughout that you can follow at home with your own kit.

The biggest key to starting out with BDSM is knowing the basics, knowing how to keep things safe and keeping it simple so you can feel confident in what you do and focus on having fun and enjoying yourself! This tutorial will aim to give you those skills so you can begin to play with BDSM and get the most out of it.


Your Instructor


Vicky Caves
Vicky Caves

Vicky has been on the BDSM scene for 20 years and running Bondatrix - a Fetish business making clothing and equipment for 18 years. She is passionate about kink, and loves many aspects of it, from bondage to impact play, to head games and exploring D/s. Vicky has spent 16 years teaching BDSM classes on many topics and loves helping people to get the most out of their kink interests.

Bondatrix makes a wide range of men’s clothing, women’s clothing, bondage gear, and impact and spanking toys. Many items are created in the U.K. workshop, from the highest quality materials, and can be customised. It is a small specialised BDSM company, with a worldwide reputation, and won the International Bondage Awards. Bondatrix ships worldwide, and you can view their products on their site or contact them about a custom item.



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When does the course start and finish?
The course starts now and runs for a whole month! It is a completely self-paced online course - you decide how fast you go and how much you revise. Subscriptions renew automatically until cancelled.
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